Welcome to this installment of the Craigslist Edition. This weeks involuntary submission comes from "sick of feeling rejected". I clicked this add because of it's obvious ties to last night's posting. I chose this post because, as always, it's a real gem.
sick of being rejected - 24 (eagle river )
Where is the woman who will love me for who I am and not what I don't have ? Why do the women allways reject me when I want to date them? No I don't have a job car or my own place to live but, you don't need that to love someone. I want to be loved and i'm sick obeing single. Rejection hurts more and more everytime I get rejected. I want to get married and have that family soon but it's killing me to open up to a woman just to get shut down. I am 24 and I am going to school through the university of phoenix for psychology. I moved up here about 10 months ago from Iowa. All i am looking for is love from a beautiful woman who wants to enjoy life. not a gold digger whch I seem to run into all the time. please if you are abeautiful woman who is just looking to be loved and give love please reply to this and send a picture . I will get back to you as soon as i can. the closer you live to eagle rier the better.
Dear Rejected,
Boy do I know how you feel. I am gainfully employed, I have my own place, a new car, and a decent head on my shoulders. I am funny, usually easy going, and have a true love for life. What I don't have is a boyfriend. Or a prospect. Or the capacity to see a rhetorical question and not answer it like a smart ass.
Your ad doesn't make me want to jump at the chance to be with you. I think perhaps that it's time for you to leave denial land and cross over to the side of self awareness. I'm sorry that your attending an online college while unemployed, carless, and living with your parents is not exactly a relationship aphrodisiac. You know what girls like? Men with jobs. I appreciate your attempt to better your circumstances by attending college in your PJs but unfortunately women appreciate income more. They don't want you to take them on a date in your dad's car, spend the night on your twin bed and have your mom cook them breakfast, and/or fund your gaming addiction. Just because a woman likes to have nice things, wants to be in a relationship with someone who is hard working, and can buy them dinner doesn't mean they are gold digger. It means they are sane.
Thank you for going to college. But I have known plenty of people with full class schedules that work almost full time and have their own space AND a car. I know. It's hard to believe.
But fact: we are in our mid-twenties. You should have something by now. My heart goes out to you in your hard time however no one is going to want to be with you when you're whining about how no one wants to be with you and you're not doing anything to change the circumstances; a lesson I am learning the hard way.
I hope you're having a great day!
Sincerely,
Your Reality Check.
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